I spent 2 years trying to get my partner out of debt and I nearly got their. Then he got a job which needed a real bank account so they could pay him his wages. When the bank saw he had money coming in they offered him a credit card. He called me up from the branch and told me he was getting a credit card and I begged the lady he was with at Lloyds Bank not to give him credit and explained he was very bad with money, and she ignored me! Thanks to Lloyds Bank he now owes nearly £20, 000. Thanks to Lloyds Bank and Cyber Bullies my little girl lives in a 84% damp house (so I am told) with Asthma and no help because I own my house, because I worked long hours before I met him.
Both his Mother and I believe he suffers from ADHD and even though I have taken him down the GP's twice they do not take me seriously. When I lived with him in Dorset he managed to get over £1, 000 worth of parking tickets, now that is with me telling him off every time I knew he got a ticket and him just ignoring me. I was pregnant at the time and I could have done without the stress. He nearly lost his driving licence over this, but the court saw me pregnant and crying my eyes out thinking what will I do if he can't work. And they took pitty on me and just put 15 points on his driving licence. Because he got paid cash for gigs I was able to manage his money but now I have no control. And the sad thing is his job does not help as they refuse to give me his wages direct so he has got me in debt now too from having to pay bills when he has not been working properly. As he knocks doors for a living the petrol prices also put lots of stress on me because I end up having to give him back money for bills for his petrol and agent fees.
No one understands the stress he puts me through because he is so irresponsible, he thinks he suffers from depression because he does not want to go to work. I am made to feel I have to put up and shut up.
I hardly talk to my family because I don't have any good news and this is so not me. I know what it is like to have a normal happy life and this is not it. I put up with a lot of rubbish because my child loves him and wants her Dad in her life and I cannot take that away from her. So not being able to get free IT help because I am being Cyber Bullied and have paid loads of tax in the past just seems very unfair. At the end of the day certain things should not be on the Internet as they encourage other things which causes bullying and stops Mum's like me from trading.
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